Hi all,
Just your average 192 cm tall, athletic American searching for his one and only. I have lived and traveled a fair bit around the world, I have two boys 5 and 7 and 3 dogs... I am a custom home builder and own my own company here in Colorado. I am hoping to meet a kind soul who is a romantic at heart and understands what emotional intelligence is.
I have zero space for anger to be used as a form of communication but have all the space for mistakes and learning from those times.
I will never judge you and in return I ask for honesty, vulnerability and a willingness to stayy calm and work through the tough times. I will love you harder than most have while simealtaniustly creating a space where you will feel safer than you ever have. As your partner one of my focuses is to never let you wonder if you are seen for who you are, desired as a woman or loved for all the part that you are, the good, the bad andthe ugly... A man should make sure his other half feels all of the above and she should feel secure in his presence. I value honesty with your words, transparency with your actions and accoutabilty with decisions made. Your word, as mine, is our link in building trust. Once tust is broken it can be very tough if even possible to repair.
I work very hard and would like my better half to have something she is passionate about. I am not looking for a sugar situation, I am looking for love, that thing that you cannot fake, that magical feeling that draws us close. The kind other people can see or feel when we are together.
Colorado is home and while I can travel this is where I am hoping you will also want to call home... At 46 I am not wanting to have any more children. Meaning if you are wanting to get pregnant I can no longer have babies... Sorry!
Denver is a fun city, its not huge, has good food, plenty to do outside, beautiful scenery, good music and the mountains are close. The winters are mild, not too cold and we get about 250 days of sunshine! For those of you who have not traveled to the US one thing I would say could be tough is the culture and history. I lived in Germany for a few years and really appreciated how I could go to any city and there was this feeling of class or elegance everywhere. Maybe it was the older buildings or the architecture but even the most basic ( кава or Kava) had a way that was beautiful. Not eveywhere, but many places. You didnt have to go to a crazy expensive restuarant to have a rich experience. We have history, we have beautiful architecture but its not the same.
I would like to find someone who enjoys the outdoors, isn't afraid to camp and get dirty for a few days. But who is equally comfortable to then come home, shower up, put heels on, go to a great dinner and an EDM concert. If you do not enjoy the outdoors, skiing or rafting, (think) floating down a river in a raft for a week, camping every night, no electricity, no running showers, no other people other than our group, please do not reach out. While its not something I do every weekend it is why I live here and as my kids get older we will do more of it. In a world of technology it is really nice to get away from all that and disconnect.
Whew, that was a lot, my brain hurts.. All that said, I'm a lover who wants to share a good life with the right person...
XO,
Capt America

My ideal match is smart, kind, humble, emotionally available has the tools to work through conflict constructively. Does not throw a temper tantrum and yell whens shes mad.
A non smoker, easy going and loves to kiss. One of my love languages is touch and what that means is when my partner reaches out to hold my hand or rub my back or run their nails softly down my arms it makes me feel desired and loved. So physical attraction is huge and a higher than average sex drive is also a bonus!!